Bob Montero, Psychotherapist
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About Bob Montero

I am a licensed clinical social worker working as a psychotherapist in Long Island, NY. I am licensed in NY and NJ. I see clients online and am a native speaker of both English and Spanish.

 
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I earned my master’s degree in 2017 at New York University’s Silver School of Social Work and did my undergraduate studies at Williams College.

Prior to my career as a psychotherapist, I spent many years working as a music producer and small business owner, catering to the U.S. advertising industry. I am a proficient jazz musician and certified yoga instructor.

In my teenage years I began to explore Buddhism, yoga, and meditation, and commenced a lifelong journey of self-inquiry that ultimately led me to pursue a career as a psychotherapist.  I have made an extensive study of trauma and offer a multi-modal approach that includes somatic work, mindfulness, and talk therapy. I have been trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Internal Family Systems and Somatic Experiencing; these are interventions that help the mind create transformative associations that help mitigate and alleviate the traumatic experience. I have also been certified in contemplative psychotherapy, and use meditation, compassion, acceptance, and other principals of mindfulness as cornerstones of my practice. Additionally, I have been trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT).

I am currently available for tele-health online sessions.

 
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My Approach

First and foremost, I believe that the rapport between client and therapist is of utmost importance and I endeavor to create an environment that is safe and non-judgmental. I work collaboratively with my clients to help them find solutions to their issues, however they may manifest in their lives.

 
 
 
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My study of psychotherapeutic interventions is bolstered by my prior life experience as a music producer. Working as a musician and business owner with other artists in a creative industry demanded incisive, solution-oriented thinking.  Sensitivity to artists’ expectations and vulnerabilities was paramount to successfully completing a project. I call upon this experience with my clients and believe that every situation and person is unique demanding an original and creative perspective.

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Trauma-informed Contemplative Psychotherapy 

I use the term “Trauma-Informed Contemplative Psychotherapy” to describe my method of intervention. Trauma overwhelms our capacity to cope and leaves a lasting impression that presents as a network of memory, sensation, emotions, and negative beliefs. Traumatic memory is easily triggered and impacts our sense of safety and belonging in the world. While most of us are familiar with “big T Trauma”-- life-threatening situations such as disasters or chronic abuse and neglect-- psychologists also describe “small t trauma,” which can result from victimization such as bullying, any kind of discrimination, living in poverty, etc.  While it often goes unrecognized, small t trauma can cause tremendous psychic and emotional pain and have a lifelong impact. The goal of trauma-informed intervention is to reprocess traumatic memory and help the client find new associations that do not connote maladaptive emotions and behavior. Interventions such as EMDR and Internal Family Systems are ideally suited to reprocessing traumatic memory.

Contemplative psychotherapy or the use of mindfulness as an intervention is a two-way street. Not only do I encourage clients to practice mindful awareness, I use it myself in sessions. It allows me to be present in the moment and listen without judgment, to practice compassion, and approach problems with a beginner’s mind.

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Reprocessing and Transforming Traumatic Memory

Our developmental attachment relationships and experience influence the behavioral patterns of our present day lives, whether we have suffered trauma with a “big T” or a “small t.” The goal of therapy is to help clients recognize the behavioral patterns that influence relationships, anxiety, and emotional experience and find more adaptive solutions that help them realize the life and values they want to live by.

The Western medical perspective can tend to stigmatize the client by pigeon-holing them with a diagnosis and the idea that an illness prevails that must be cured. I prefer to adopt a more holistic perspective. Chronic stress creates a strain that calls upon the system to devise coping strategies to survive. Often these strategies, especially the ones we adopt instinctively in childhood, fail to serve us, or worse, are the source of maladaptive behavior that creates problems in our lives as adults. Ultimately the system wants to heal itself, and it is my goal to help clients discover that they can let go of what is no longer working for them.

There are vast correlations between Eastern philosophy and Western psychotherapy. The Buddhists and yogis believe that the endless cycle of negative karma can be changed by positive karma. Neuroscience has come to the same conclusion by demonstrating the plasticity of neural pathways. Maladaptive behavioral patterns and responses, which often take hold of our lives can be transformed and rewritten. It is my goal to collaborate with my clients so that they can realize this transformative experience.

 

Certifications

  • EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing)

  • Internal Family Systems

  • Somatic Experiencing

  • JRI Trauma Center 2017 – 2018 Certificate Program In Trauma Stress Studies

  • Nalanda Institute One-year Contemplative Psychotherapy Program

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) 6 Week Intensive Certificate Course

  • Dialectical Behavioral Therapy National Certification And Accreditation Association

 
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